Do You Have a Secret?

A gentle guide walks children through the difference between fun surprises and secrets that feel scary or confusing, helping them learn when it's time to tell a trusted grown-up.

For the kid who's been told to keep something quiet and isn't sure how that sits with them, this book offers the words to sort it out.

• Big idea: Not all secrets are the same, and a child's discomfort is always reason enough to speak up.
• Vibes: Calm, reassuring, and steady — a conversation, not a lecture.

• are working on understanding privacy and personal safety
• respond well to gentle, direct language about tricky feelings
• benefit from reassurance that it's okay to ask questions
• are learning to tell a trusted adult when something feels wrong

• Understanding the concept: What's the difference between a fun surprise and a secret that feels bad?
• Feelings & empathy: How might it feel inside if a secret makes you worried or confused?
• Real-life connection: Who are the grown-ups you trust and could talk to if something felt wrong?
• Safety & confidence: Why is it always okay to tell someone about a secret that scares you?
• Imagination: What would you say to a friend who told you they had a secret that made them uncomfortable?