Hands Are Not for Hitting (Ages 0-3) (Best Behavior

A gentle guide walks toddlers through all the things hands can do besides hit — drawing, building, waving, hugging — while teaching calmer ways to handle big feelings like anger.

For toddlers still figuring out what to do with big feelings and even bigger fists, this book hands them real alternatives instead of just a scolding.

• Big idea: The same hands that hit can also help, build, and hug — it's about choosing which kind of hands to be.
• Vibes: Warm, plainspoken, and reassuring rather than preachy.

• are working on managing anger and frustration
• are learning safe ways to handle big emotions
• respond well to simple, direct language about behavior
• benefit from seeing caring alternatives to hitting

• Real-life connection: Can you show me something kind your hands can do, like waving or hugging?
• Feelings & empathy: What can you do with your hands when you feel really angry?
• Story & problem-solving: What are some things this book says hands are for instead of hitting?
• Real-life connection: Who is someone you could give a helping hand to today?