The Tenth Good Thing About Barney
By Judith Viorst
The Story
After his cat Barney dies, a young boy sets out to name ten good things about him for the funeral, but can only think of nine — until a talk with his father helps him find the tenth.
Why It's Special
For the child who's asked hard questions about death and loss, this book sits with the sadness instead of rushing past it.
- Big idea: Grief isn't something to solve quickly — it can grow into understanding, given time and the right words.
- Vibes: Quiet, tender, and honest, with gentle warmth underneath the sadness.
Perfect For Kids Who
- are working through the loss of a pet or loved one
- are curious about death and what happens after
- benefit from open, honest conversations about feelings
- respond well to quiet, reflective stories rather than fast-paced ones
Ask Your Little Reader
- Feelings & empathy: How do you think the boy felt when he could only think of nine good things about Barney?
- Story & problem-solving: What do you think his father said that helped him find the tenth good thing?
- Real-life connection: Have you ever lost a pet or someone you loved? What good things do you remember about them?
- Imagination: If you made a list of ten good things about someone you love, what would you put on it?
- Big ideas: Why do you think it helped the boy to talk about Barney instead of keeping his feelings inside?












