Your Body Belongs to You
By Cornelia Spelman
The Story
A gentle guide explains that children get to decide who touches their body, even a loving relative asking for a hug, and that it's always right to tell if someone touches their private parts.
Why It's Special
For the child learning that their feelings about their own body matter, this book puts real words to a boundary they may not know how to voice yet.
- Big idea: Your body belongs to you, and saying no to touch — even from someone you love — doesn't cost you the relationship.
- Vibes: Calm, reassuring, straightforward
Perfect For Kids Who
- are working on understanding consent and personal boundaries
- benefit from clear, simple language about their bodies
- need practice saying no to unwanted hugs or kisses
- are learning who to tell if something feels wrong
Ask Your Little Reader
- Real-life connection: Has anyone ever asked you for a hug or kiss when you didn't want one? What did you say?
- Understanding the message: What does it mean that your body belongs to you?
- Safety & trust: Who are the grown-ups you could tell if someone touched you in a way that didn't feel right?
- Feelings & empathy: Can you still be friends with someone even if you say no to a hug? Why?
